Volunteer Stories

Jeanette: Compliments and Smiles

Have you ever met an accountant-turned-nanny studying to become a teacher who spends her “free time” volunteering? We have! And we are thankful to have met her. Jeanette is a full time student at Cardinal Stritch studying to earn a dual certificate in regular and special education. She spent most of her life working as an accountant but felt it was not the right fit for her.

After an inspiring opportunity to nanny for a family with five children, Jeanette realized she belonged in education. Not just education in the strictest sense, Jeanette also wanted to continue her education in the community. 

“As a teacher, I need to know the community I’m working in. For years, I wanted to volunteer but could not because of my hectic work schedule. Working 2-3 jobs, it was hard to find time.”  

But now, she has. For the past three months, Jeanette has been volunteering at the Gathering’s breakfast program 3-4 times a week. You can see her regularly in the serving line. She’s the one with a big “J” hand-sewn onto her specialized Gathering apron. 

“I think names are important. That’s why I sewed the “J” on my apron. I wanted people to know that they can call me J and I want to know their names, too.”

Like many dedicated Gathering volunteers, Jeanette believes that respect and dignity are of the utmost importance.  


“Little compliments and smiles go a long way.”


Her favorite part of the meal is sitting down and visiting with guests and volunteers once the rush is over, swapping stories and socializing. She has even been able to help guests out in unique ways, including tutoring, providing community resources, donating clothes to St. James’ Red Door Clothing and even hemming a pair of pants that didn’t quite fit one of the guests.

Jeanette does not volunteer just to give back; she also gains a lot from her experience at the breakfast program. 


“Sometimes you can really feel alone, but when I go to the Gathering, I feel like a part of something. It’s not about status or socioeconomic means; it’s just about everyone being there. No one’s background really matters. It’s bigger than me. It’s about making the community go in a positive direction.”


It’s the little things that Jeanette and all the Gathering’s guests and volunteers do to move our community in a positive direction. Whether its swapping stories, hemming pants or just being present, Jeanette and so many others help the Gathering create a comforting and dignified community.

In Memory of Sharon: A Birthday Breakfast

Top left: Bob Heindl organizes tickets for the Gathering’s Breakfast Program; Top right: Sam hands out silverware in the serving line; Bottom: 7/22 Sharon’s birthday breakfast sausage and eggs

Top left: Bob Heindl organizes tickets for the Gathering’s Breakfast Program; Top right: Sam hands out silverware in the serving line; Bottom: 7/22 Sharon’s birthday breakfast sausage and eggs

The morning of July 22nd, 2014, the Gathering celebrated a special meal in memory of Sharon Heindl. Sharon passed away a little over four years ago from breast cancer. Her husband, Bob, has been a dedicated volunteer at the Gathering for over 7 years and has most recently taken on a position as a member of the Board of Directors. On July 22nd, Sharon’s birthday, the Heindls sponsored a breakfast meal complete with eggs and sausage and volunteered their time in honor of her.

For Bob and his family, the Gathering has been an important ministry. Bob and Sharon used to travel to work together and swap stories about the Gathering. 


“I thought it would be a good thing. I believe that people who have been blessed in life have an obligation to give something back—to life, and to other people.


Bob continued, “So it worked out well that I could drop her [Sharon] off at the office downtown, and then I could just slide in here and volunteer one day a week. Because she worked, she never could volunteer here, but she was very interested. She enjoyed hearing the stories…she didn’t know the people but she knew of them through the stories.”

After Sharon passed away, Bob remembered one of the conversations they had about the Gathering and this conversation sparked an idea that has turned into a beautiful tradition.

“Well my wife got breast cancer and went through all the surgery and chemo and radiation and she died a little over four years ago. The first year after she died I was a little too torn up at that time. But I think it was the second year after she died that I remember a conversation she and I had where I talked about how we used to have eggs once a week at the Gathering and that wasn’t happening anymore. I distinctly remember this conversation, because she worded her response kind of strangely, she said, ‘They shall have eggs!’ So I decided that, on her birthday, I wanted to provide eggs to the Gathering. So yeah, in Sharon’s memory and because its something I want to do, it makes me feel good and I’m sure she’s happy about it somewhere – I provide eggs to the Gathering.”

Bob and Sharon’s daughter, Sam, as well as Sharon’s sister Kathy and Bob’s two great-nephews Colin and Jonathan came along to volunteer as well. Together, they served delicious eggs and sausage to almost 200 guests. The Gathering is so thankful for Bob and the Heindl family, and honored to have been a part of Sharon’s life.

Discussion with St. Monica Catholic School Youth

St. Monica Catholic School is committed to “learn, live and love through Jesus.” The school focuses on a holistic approach to education: education of mind, spirit and body. As part of this holistic approach, St. Monica makes it their mission to incorporate hands-on social justice into their schooling. Throughout the past year, eighty-eight 7th and 8th grade St. Monica students volunteered with the Gathering’s breakfast program. Each month, the school brought a group down to prepare food, serve the meal and clean up. In May of this year, St. Monica faculty will also be serving a meal.

The students participated in the breakfast program by organizing pastries, preparing toast, wrapping silverware, serving ham, juice, milk, vegetables, fruit, and cleaning up the St. James’ breakfast site after the meal. They are a committed and eager group of students who was not afraid to jump into the experience head first.

They were also not afraid to share their experience with me openly and honestly. We had the opportunity to sit down with six students from St. Monica: Maura (7th grade), Laney (8th grade), Madeline (8th grade), Blase (7th grade), Charlie (7th grade) and Matthew (7th grade). The students spoke with an impressive maturity and depth and had a lot of insight to share during our round table interview. Check out some of what they had to say:

What does The Gathering mean to St. Monica and the Milwaukee community?

Charlie: When we were serving there, there were UWM students, Marquette students, I feel like it brings a lot of the different communities together. It is cool to see how much the community responds and how much they want to pitch in.

Maura: It’s not solving the world hunger problem, but it’s the small things that make such a difference in Milwaukee.

Charlie: Yeah, I think it’s important because, you know, all the years we are at St. Monica you have the aspect of learning about community service and helping others. This gave us an opportunity to actually put it into real life – and thats important. A good learning experience as well as something good that we do in our faith.

Blase: Yeah, I agree – it’s something we should do as Catholics, as Christians, something that you should do more than once. It makes you appreciate everything that you have. Some people have to come to shelters and meal programs to get food, we get to go home and have dinner waiting for us on the table.

Matthew: We live in an area where we don’t really get the sense of poverty. There is really no one in our neighborhoods who is struggling to eat, or anything like that. It really gave you a sense that there are actually people out there, fairly close to home that are struggling.

So, what is the link between faith and serving at The Gathering?

Maura: We learn a lot about Catholic Social Teaching and one of the questions in our reflection was what different parts of Catholic Social Teaching (CST) apply to this experience – I was surprised at how many different components did relate.

Madeline: I think it was a good experience to learn what CST actually is instead of just reading about it. When you actually go and see how many people are doing it, it’s pretty different.

Laney: Yeah, I’ve been here 10 years and I’ve done so much service, we’ve always done it in school and never gone outside and done it, so it was cool to travel.

What is one thing you learned from your experience with The Gathering?

Laney: I learned that even though people don’t have as much, they can be so happy. We want the latest and newest technology, but some people don’t even have a phone, or a home, but they’re happy.

Charlie: I learned that they’re real people. Just like you and I. When you think of a “homeless person,” you sometimes think of someone so foreign from us, but they’re relatable and just humans like us.

Maura: I learned that I should be a lot more positive. It made me really happy to see people being happy.

Blase: I learned that happiness does not come from objects, or all the things we have, it comes from other people. We were serving those people and that brought happiness inside of all of us. They don’t have a lot of things in their possession and still, most of them are still positive and happy and liked to see us working there. They smiled at us and everything.

Madeline: I learned that even though people don’t have as much as us, they’re still like us. They want to be treated the same, they don’t want to be treated differently and they treat you the same way as they treat their friends. We’re all equals.

Matthew: I learned, when you go to big cities, on street corners you see people sleeping on park benches, you see that they’re living in poverty. You see that in big cities like Chicago or DC, but, once you serve at the Gathering it really shows you there is actual poverty in your hometown.

 

Laney, Charlie, Maura, Blase, Madeline, Matthew and all of the St. Monica students and faculty promote the Gathering’s mission of serving the hungry and homeless in community. Their desire to put faith into action is important and we are thankful that there is a school that teaches this practice, even at a young age. We look forward to continuing our work with St. Monica.

FUEL Milwaukee Adopts the Gathering

In February, FUEL Milwaukee adopted the Gathering as part of their Adopt-A-Nonprofit program. FUEL Milwaukee is a community engagement network that seeks to connect young professionals to organizations serving Milwaukee.

Every year, FUEL’s Creative Council selects a number of nonprofits to partner with through their Adopt-A-Nonprofit program. Through this program, the Council works to promote each non-profit through various events including a launch event (200+participants), social events and volunteering/fundraising efforts. The benefits include publicity, education about the nonprofit, and a large volunteer base of professionals with all types of networks. So far, this partnership has been very rewarding for the Gathering—bringing in new volunteers, raising awareness and helping us spread our mission!

One of the Gathering’s Creative Council partners, Corrie, explained the importance of the program. “The Adopt-a-Nonprofit is my favorite part of FUEL and the Creative Council. Without FUEL, I probably wouldn’t know about half of the needs of our city. The opportunity to learn about what great work is being done is one thing but to be able to be part of that great work is priceless. That’s the benefit of Adopt-a-Nonprofit, you connect to people, places and organizations you might not have on your own, to make a difference right here in the city of Milwaukee.”

Special thanks to Corrie and Kara, FUEL’s creative council members who elected to work with the Gathering, Tiffany, Tara and Gathering Board Members. These indiviudals have already put in a great deal of time, talent and energy towards the partnership. We look forward to more social and volunteer events with FUEL, and we hope to welcome more FUEL members into the Gathering family.

Learn more about FUEL Milwaukee and the adopt-a-nonprofit program.

2014 Volunteer Celebration

 by Ginny Schrag

Every year, the Gathering holds an event to celebrate our volunteers and honor those who have reached milestones in their service with us. This year’s celebration was held on the evening of March 27th at Evolution Gastro Pong (formerly Spin Milwaukee) in the Third Ward. This table tennis and dining venue offers space to nonprofits at no charge. Over 100 Gathering volunteers took advantage of the four available ping pong tables and the catered food and beverages.

Between 1,500 and 2,000 volunteers work with the Gathering each year, cooking, coordinating serving groups, preserving produce, serving meals, cleaning and painting, answering phones, guiding the agency through board service, conducting fundraisers, and so much more.

To our volunteers: without you there would be no Gathering. You build the community and maintain the hospitality so important to serving our guests with respect and dignity. Thank you!

The 2013 Volunteer Award Recipients are listed below. Special thanks to Lisa Yanzer for all of the event’s photographs pictured throughout this newsletter and on our website. 

Friend of the Gathering Awards – Outstanding Service

Hindu Temple of Wisconsin, Jim Leurquin, St. James Episcopal Church, Weekday On-Site Collaborations (Homeless Outreach Nursing Center, Legal Aid Society & Lucy Cooper, St. Ben’s Medical Clinic)

George and Craig

George and Craig

George Greene Award Given for exceptional service by a guest turned volunteer:  Craig Burrow, Breakfast Program

Serving Groups - Milestones reached in 2013 for # of times served

  • 15+       Faith Community Congregational Church, Mt. Calvary Lutheran School
  • 25+       Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church
  • 35+       Beautiful Savior Lutheran Church
  • 50+       St. Boniface Episcopal Church, YouthWorks
  • 65+       University Lake School
  • 75+       North Shore Presbyterian Church, St. Christopher’s Episcopal Church, St. John Vianney Firm Believers
  • 85+       St. Rafael Catholic School, UWM Center for Community-Based Learning, Leadership and Research
  • 150+   Emanuel United Church of Christ
  • 275+    St. Anne’s Serving Team
  • 325+    Marquette University High School

Produce Preservation - Milestones reached in 2013 for # of times served

  • 10+     Char Radke, Jane Shero, Michelle Talhami
  • 25+      Eileen Duffey

Individual Awards – Milestones reached in 2013 for # ofyears served:

  • 3 Years:   Tom Sromek, Shayla Sromek, Shirley Bankier, Jennifer Thomas, Sue Hanser, Brian Genduso, Cindy Kaja, Rob Krecak, Robert MacDonald
  • 5 Years:   Velma Foster, Kathy Sween, Noni Guddie, Judy Linsley, Dan Linsley, Camille Austin, Tricia Trexell, Marie Daniels, Sandra Hickman, Valecia Watson
  • 10 Years:   Cheri Grambo
  • 15 Years:   Gene Detert, Julie Mercer
  • 20 Years:   Bob Nakamura, Pat Steppe
  • 25 Years:   Marge Gundrum
Dan, Natalia and Miriam accept the award for St. Rafael Catholic School

Dan, Natalia and Miriam accept the award for St. Rafael Catholic School

We Love the Volunteer Center of Greater Milwaukee

The Volunteer Center of Greater Milwaukee is “Milwaukee’s primary resource for volunteerism." It helps recruit volunteers for the Gathering’s meal programs, along with other volunteer-based nonprofits in the area. The Center also provides area nonprofits with countless resources. They do great work behind the scenes and we think it’s time they are recognized.

Jessica Tabbutt is the program coordinator at the Volunteer Center of Greater Milwaukee. Tabbutt runs the Center’s website, speaks at community service fairs, corresponds with prospective volunteers and works in creative ways to promote volunteering throughout Milwaukee. If that wasn’t enough, Tabbutt still finds time to volunteer at partner agencies. 


“One of my personal goals is to really get to know the agencies and volunteer opportunities I’m sending volunteers to.”


Tabbutt’s experiences with the Gathering’s meal program have been enjoyable. “Every one of the guests and fellow volunteers were so nice to be around. I pointed out to a friend after the experience, you wouldn’t even know it was 7:30am while you’re there. Everyone is chipper, in a good mood and excited to be there!”

Tabbutt also interacted with many of the Gathering’s long term volunteers including Robert and Yolanda, Marquette High School students, and more.

“Yolanda told me that the week before I was there was her one year anniversary of volunteering at the Breakfast Program. Along with her, many of the others were returning volunteers as well. I think that it’s very special when volunteers love being there so much they return time and time again.”

The Gathering is so thankful for our volunteers, whether they can come once, twice, or have been volunteering for a year. The work of Jessica Tabbutt, the Volunteer Center of Greater Milwaukee, and other community organizations strengthens our committed volunteer network. We cannot thank you all enough!

Connect with the Volunteer Center of Milwaukee.