Craig: Humility and Hard Work

When asked to do an interview, Craig Burrow was hesitant. He is not the kind of person who seeks out the spotlight and he is not “much of a talker.” Craig’s humility, combined with his work ethic, contributes to his amazing volunteer skills. Every Monday through Friday at the Gathering’s breakfast program, Craig can be seen cooking, chatting, laughing and washing dishes in the kitchen.

Craig explained that he got involved with the Gathering through community service. This September will mark Craig’s two year anniversary volunteering with the breakfast program. Craig prefers to spend his time in the kitchen, behind the scenes. He explained, “George is a way cool guy, and being around Cary? It’s fun. He’s a joker. I like to do my thing and watch everybody.”

Craig admires and respects the Gathering staff and volunteers and has become a valuable part of the morning meal. Deacon Ned, a long term volunteer and supporter of the Gathering has also been somewhat of an inspiration to Craig: “I look forward to whenever the Deacon is here. I look forward to his prayers.”

Craig has dealt with homelessness before, but is currently sharing an apartment with a friend. His friend pays a reduced rent and Craig prepares all of their meals as his share of the rent. Since his roommate is not a good cook, the skills Craig cultivated at the Gathering really pay off.

Through connections at the Gathering, Craig has also been able to secure some employment opportunities. He hopes to gain full time work and find his own place. 


“That’s why it’s important to stick around here—‘cause of the connections. That’s what’s important to me—getting my own place  That’s all I ever wanted.”


Craig’s calm spirit, get-the-job-done-attitude, smile, and commitment makes the Gathering’s breakfast program a little better. We hope the connections made can pay him back for all he does for others.

Jeanette: Compliments and Smiles

Have you ever met an accountant-turned-nanny studying to become a teacher who spends her “free time” volunteering? We have! And we are thankful to have met her. Jeanette is a full time student at Cardinal Stritch studying to earn a dual certificate in regular and special education. She spent most of her life working as an accountant but felt it was not the right fit for her.

After an inspiring opportunity to nanny for a family with five children, Jeanette realized she belonged in education. Not just education in the strictest sense, Jeanette also wanted to continue her education in the community. 

“As a teacher, I need to know the community I’m working in. For years, I wanted to volunteer but could not because of my hectic work schedule. Working 2-3 jobs, it was hard to find time.”  

But now, she has. For the past three months, Jeanette has been volunteering at the Gathering’s breakfast program 3-4 times a week. You can see her regularly in the serving line. She’s the one with a big “J” hand-sewn onto her specialized Gathering apron. 

“I think names are important. That’s why I sewed the “J” on my apron. I wanted people to know that they can call me J and I want to know their names, too.”

Like many dedicated Gathering volunteers, Jeanette believes that respect and dignity are of the utmost importance.  


“Little compliments and smiles go a long way.”


Her favorite part of the meal is sitting down and visiting with guests and volunteers once the rush is over, swapping stories and socializing. She has even been able to help guests out in unique ways, including tutoring, providing community resources, donating clothes to St. James’ Red Door Clothing and even hemming a pair of pants that didn’t quite fit one of the guests.

Jeanette does not volunteer just to give back; she also gains a lot from her experience at the breakfast program. 


“Sometimes you can really feel alone, but when I go to the Gathering, I feel like a part of something. It’s not about status or socioeconomic means; it’s just about everyone being there. No one’s background really matters. It’s bigger than me. It’s about making the community go in a positive direction.”


It’s the little things that Jeanette and all the Gathering’s guests and volunteers do to move our community in a positive direction. Whether its swapping stories, hemming pants or just being present, Jeanette and so many others help the Gathering create a comforting and dignified community.

$4,720 Raised During Challenge Grant Campaign

On May 21st, the Gathering launched a Challenge Grant campaign. Through this campaign, an anonymous donor promised to match donations from new donors dollar-for-dollar for up to $5,500. That meant any $25 donation, which can provide breakfast for 10 Gathering guests, became a $50 donation or breakfast for 20 Gathering guests. This was an exciting opportunity for the Gathering and the ultimate purpose of this campaign was to attract new donors and supporters in order to widen our community of people feeding the hungry. We set the bar high and waited for our supporters to answer—and they did!

When the campaign closed on June 30th, forty new donors had given generous gifts for a total of $2,360. With the match, this means that $4,720 total was raised for the Gathering’s programs to feed the hungry and homeless. While we did not meet our ultimate match goal, we are still incredibly grateful for the donations and support of all those who participated. THANK YOU for helping to keep our mission alive! And keep your eyes peeled for the next exciting Gathering opportunity.

In Memory of Sharon: A Birthday Breakfast

Top left: Bob Heindl organizes tickets for the Gathering’s Breakfast Program; Top right: Sam hands out silverware in the serving line; Bottom: 7/22 Sharon’s birthday breakfast sausage and eggs

Top left: Bob Heindl organizes tickets for the Gathering’s Breakfast Program; Top right: Sam hands out silverware in the serving line; Bottom: 7/22 Sharon’s birthday breakfast sausage and eggs

The morning of July 22nd, 2014, the Gathering celebrated a special meal in memory of Sharon Heindl. Sharon passed away a little over four years ago from breast cancer. Her husband, Bob, has been a dedicated volunteer at the Gathering for over 7 years and has most recently taken on a position as a member of the Board of Directors. On July 22nd, Sharon’s birthday, the Heindls sponsored a breakfast meal complete with eggs and sausage and volunteered their time in honor of her.

For Bob and his family, the Gathering has been an important ministry. Bob and Sharon used to travel to work together and swap stories about the Gathering. 


“I thought it would be a good thing. I believe that people who have been blessed in life have an obligation to give something back—to life, and to other people.


Bob continued, “So it worked out well that I could drop her [Sharon] off at the office downtown, and then I could just slide in here and volunteer one day a week. Because she worked, she never could volunteer here, but she was very interested. She enjoyed hearing the stories…she didn’t know the people but she knew of them through the stories.”

After Sharon passed away, Bob remembered one of the conversations they had about the Gathering and this conversation sparked an idea that has turned into a beautiful tradition.

“Well my wife got breast cancer and went through all the surgery and chemo and radiation and she died a little over four years ago. The first year after she died I was a little too torn up at that time. But I think it was the second year after she died that I remember a conversation she and I had where I talked about how we used to have eggs once a week at the Gathering and that wasn’t happening anymore. I distinctly remember this conversation, because she worded her response kind of strangely, she said, ‘They shall have eggs!’ So I decided that, on her birthday, I wanted to provide eggs to the Gathering. So yeah, in Sharon’s memory and because its something I want to do, it makes me feel good and I’m sure she’s happy about it somewhere – I provide eggs to the Gathering.”

Bob and Sharon’s daughter, Sam, as well as Sharon’s sister Kathy and Bob’s two great-nephews Colin and Jonathan came along to volunteer as well. Together, they served delicious eggs and sausage to almost 200 guests. The Gathering is so thankful for Bob and the Heindl family, and honored to have been a part of Sharon’s life.

Discussion with St. Monica Catholic School Youth

St. Monica Catholic School is committed to “learn, live and love through Jesus.” The school focuses on a holistic approach to education: education of mind, spirit and body. As part of this holistic approach, St. Monica makes it their mission to incorporate hands-on social justice into their schooling. Throughout the past year, eighty-eight 7th and 8th grade St. Monica students volunteered with the Gathering’s breakfast program. Each month, the school brought a group down to prepare food, serve the meal and clean up. In May of this year, St. Monica faculty will also be serving a meal.

The students participated in the breakfast program by organizing pastries, preparing toast, wrapping silverware, serving ham, juice, milk, vegetables, fruit, and cleaning up the St. James’ breakfast site after the meal. They are a committed and eager group of students who was not afraid to jump into the experience head first.

They were also not afraid to share their experience with me openly and honestly. We had the opportunity to sit down with six students from St. Monica: Maura (7th grade), Laney (8th grade), Madeline (8th grade), Blase (7th grade), Charlie (7th grade) and Matthew (7th grade). The students spoke with an impressive maturity and depth and had a lot of insight to share during our round table interview. Check out some of what they had to say:

What does The Gathering mean to St. Monica and the Milwaukee community?

Charlie: When we were serving there, there were UWM students, Marquette students, I feel like it brings a lot of the different communities together. It is cool to see how much the community responds and how much they want to pitch in.

Maura: It’s not solving the world hunger problem, but it’s the small things that make such a difference in Milwaukee.

Charlie: Yeah, I think it’s important because, you know, all the years we are at St. Monica you have the aspect of learning about community service and helping others. This gave us an opportunity to actually put it into real life – and thats important. A good learning experience as well as something good that we do in our faith.

Blase: Yeah, I agree – it’s something we should do as Catholics, as Christians, something that you should do more than once. It makes you appreciate everything that you have. Some people have to come to shelters and meal programs to get food, we get to go home and have dinner waiting for us on the table.

Matthew: We live in an area where we don’t really get the sense of poverty. There is really no one in our neighborhoods who is struggling to eat, or anything like that. It really gave you a sense that there are actually people out there, fairly close to home that are struggling.

So, what is the link between faith and serving at The Gathering?

Maura: We learn a lot about Catholic Social Teaching and one of the questions in our reflection was what different parts of Catholic Social Teaching (CST) apply to this experience – I was surprised at how many different components did relate.

Madeline: I think it was a good experience to learn what CST actually is instead of just reading about it. When you actually go and see how many people are doing it, it’s pretty different.

Laney: Yeah, I’ve been here 10 years and I’ve done so much service, we’ve always done it in school and never gone outside and done it, so it was cool to travel.

What is one thing you learned from your experience with The Gathering?

Laney: I learned that even though people don’t have as much, they can be so happy. We want the latest and newest technology, but some people don’t even have a phone, or a home, but they’re happy.

Charlie: I learned that they’re real people. Just like you and I. When you think of a “homeless person,” you sometimes think of someone so foreign from us, but they’re relatable and just humans like us.

Maura: I learned that I should be a lot more positive. It made me really happy to see people being happy.

Blase: I learned that happiness does not come from objects, or all the things we have, it comes from other people. We were serving those people and that brought happiness inside of all of us. They don’t have a lot of things in their possession and still, most of them are still positive and happy and liked to see us working there. They smiled at us and everything.

Madeline: I learned that even though people don’t have as much as us, they’re still like us. They want to be treated the same, they don’t want to be treated differently and they treat you the same way as they treat their friends. We’re all equals.

Matthew: I learned, when you go to big cities, on street corners you see people sleeping on park benches, you see that they’re living in poverty. You see that in big cities like Chicago or DC, but, once you serve at the Gathering it really shows you there is actual poverty in your hometown.

 

Laney, Charlie, Maura, Blase, Madeline, Matthew and all of the St. Monica students and faculty promote the Gathering’s mission of serving the hungry and homeless in community. Their desire to put faith into action is important and we are thankful that there is a school that teaches this practice, even at a young age. We look forward to continuing our work with St. Monica.

2014 Gathering Golf Classic Recap

We raised $20,138.73! Our most successful Golf Classic to date!

At 1:30 on the dot, the sun came out from behind the rain clouds and shined down on the 75 golfers as they headed to their assigned tees. The Gathering’s 8th annual Golf Classic was held at Elkhorn’s Evergreen Golf Course on Monday, June 23. Over the years this special event has generated $112,787 for the Gathering’s work. The dollars raised this year were the most ever, thanks to the generosity of our major sponsors. Dollars were also raised from registration fees, wine ring toss, and a raffle offering everything from a Kindle Fire to a Brewers’ Tailgate. Sponsors and raffle donors are listed on the next page.

After the event, Cathy Stagmer, Manager-Global Community Relations for Joy Global (a Gold Sponsor since 2008) stated, I’m glad the event was the success you hoped it would be. Our golfers had a great time. One of the members of our foursome was new to the company and new to the Gathering. He was very impressed with you as an organization and passionate about the work you do to serve our community. We look forward to joining you on the greens again next year!”

The view from the hole-in-one tee at Evergreen Golf Club in Elkhorn, WI

The view from the hole-in-one tee at Evergreen Golf Club in Elkhorn, WI

Holz Chevrolet supplied the car for our hole-in-one, but, alas it was not won. Other winners included Cameron Brady – longest drive; John Gardipee – longest putt; Dan Kiernan – closest to the pin; Muldoon (Tom)/Wiesneth/Rogaczewski/Rogaczewski foursome - highest score (last place); Morrison/Brady/Wickett/Sievert foursome - lowest score (1st place). Thanks to The Gathering’s Board of Directors who drive this event and to Gathering staff for their support work. Mark your calendars for next year – Monday, June 22! We would love to have you join us.

The talented golf foursome from Joy Global, one of the event's gold sponsors

The talented golf foursome from Joy Global, one of the event's gold sponsors

Mike takes a swing

Mike takes a swing

Special Thanks to our 2014 Gathering Golf Classic Sponsors and Raffle Donors

Double Gold Sponsors:

CHUCK & EILEEN STONER

Gold Sponsors:

ZACHER TRUCKING SERVICES

Silver Sponsors:

Law Office of Eugene E. Detert, Mel & David Johnson, Mike & Ginny McBride, Milwaukee Capital, Inc., Ab Nicholas

Hole Sponsors:

Advocacy Investment LLC (1)

Anytime Fitness Sussex (2)

BE Repaired Auto and Truck (1)

Data Financial, Inc. (1)

Steve & Ricka Long (1)

Harry & Ellie Moseley (1)

Nordco, Inc. (2)

Ruby Isle Auto (1)

Weber & Rick, S.C. (1)

Wixon, Inc. (1)

Raffle and Prize Donors:

Anodyne Coffee Roasting Mike & Sue Carnahan

Charles Allis Villa Terrace Art Museum Colectivo Discovery World Doubletree by Hilton Florentine Opera

Fred Astaire Dance Company Friends of Boerner Botanical Gardens German Fest Green Bay Packers

Mel & David Johnson

Joy Global

Klement’s Sausage

Lakefront Brewery

Jim Leurquin

Lowe’s – Franklin Store

Lucille’s Rockin’ Pianos

Mike & Ginny McBride

Menards

Milwaukee Admirals

Milwaukee Brewers

Milwaukee Bucks

Milwaukee County Parks

Milwaukee Irish Festivals

Milwaukee Public Museum

Milwaukee Repertory Theatre

Milwaukee Symphony Orchestra

Milwaukee World Festival

Next Act Theatre

Polish Fest

Present Music

PRP Wine International

Sazerac

Ginny Schrag

Six Flags Great America

Skydive Milwaukee

Sprecher Brewing Company

Transfer Pizzeria

Teresa Trostmiller

Wisconsin Athletic Club

Wisconsin Hospitality Group

Check out all of our golfers from the event! Thanks to everyone who came out and golfed - we had a great time.

Not pictured: Joe, Som, Michael and Bill

Camron, Mike, Chris and Shane - golfers extraordinaire

Camron, Mike, Chris and Shane - golfers extraordinaire

Greg, Ben, Mike and Tom - Showing off their golfing prowess

Greg, Ben, Mike and Tom - Showing off their golfing prowess

Ray, Jim, Lisa and Deb - go for the hole-in-one

Ray, Jim, Lisa and Deb - go for the hole-in-one

George, Kyle, Carl, Bob - golfing up a storm

George, Kyle, Carl, Bob - golfing up a storm

Bob, Patrick and Bill - golf their way to the top

Bob, Patrick and Bill - golf their way to the top

Jim, Jason, Darin and Rolf - golf as great as their style

Jim, Jason, Darin and Rolf - golf as great as their style

David, Bob, Hap and Dan - a committed foursome

David, Bob, Hap and Dan - a committed foursome

Janice, George, Mike and Ginny - gettin' it on the green

Janice, George, Mike and Ginny - gettin' it on the green

Gunnar, Tucker, Jim and Candace - show off their serious golf skills

Gunnar, Tucker, Jim and Candace - show off their serious golf skills

Clark, Kathy, John and Terri - So good, they're practically pro

Clark, Kathy, John and Terri - So good, they're practically pro

John, Dick, Dick and Joe - a talented golf foursome

John, Dick, Dick and Joe - a talented golf foursome

Jeff, Cindy, Mike and Mike - Got great swings

Jeff, Cindy, Mike and Mike - Got great swings

Wayne, Jim, Jeff and Kyle - formidable golfing opponents

Wayne, Jim, Jeff and Kyle - formidable golfing opponents

Scott, Dave, Greg and Mark - They know how to drive a ball

Scott, Dave, Greg and Mark - They know how to drive a ball

Gene, Brian, Dennis and Brandon - Golfing in style

Gene, Brian, Dennis and Brandon - Golfing in style

Mike, Jon and Everett - Taking care of the course

Mike, Jon and Everett - Taking care of the course

Scott, Hank, Brian and Randy from Zacher Truck Service

Scott, Hank, Brian and Randy from Zacher Truck Service